Sunday, 9 September 2018

When Coping With Mental Illness In The Family Becomes A Reality

By Jeffrey Ross


There are huge problems that families have to deal with when a loved one experiences problems with their mental health. Obviously one needs to look out for the individual and find out what their requirements are. However, there is no doubt that coping with mental illness in the family is not an easy task.

This may vary from one person to the next. Some people will display more physical symptoms which can include a change in mood, the loss of appetite, substance abuse and the inability to socialize. Other people will be emotionally affected. This is sometimes worse. Even with medication it can be erratic because it means that the family won't know what to expect.

It is difficult when their spouse or child continues to blame them or makes them feel guilty. It is not easy to tell yourself that this is all about the disorder, especially when you are more of a sensitive person. It is particularly difficult for the parent because one will think they have done something wrong somewhere along the line.

Someone with borderline personality disorder will have moments when they react in an extremely negative way. They can begin to shout at the top of their voice. Physical abuse is common. A lot of blame is also something that goes with the package. Family members may feel that they have to walk around on eggshells in a case like this.

Sometimes, family members just don't know enough about the illness. The first thing that they think about is to send the individual to a home. Finding out more about the illness is the first step that one should take. A specialized therapist will be able to help here. Sometimes, people are not on medication. They will have serious depression, so of course, they are going to lie in bed all day in a catatonic state.

In a case like this, therapy is imperative. It can ruin a child's life when they see their mom or dad acting in this way. When they see mom or dad filled with rage or they discover that they have been sleeping all day, they usually begin to think they have done something wrong. This is the way in which a child will think. However, it is not the case at all and this is why one needs to take children into consideration as well.

Children go through a wide range of problems as well. It doesn't just relate to adults. The secret is to recognize signs and symptoms in the early stages so that one can treat this early on. Parents need to know how to deal with this in the early stages. Teenagers often go through a lot of stress and anxiety and this leads to other disorders. It is something to watch out for.

Relationship will especially become strained during the teenage years. There are a lot of hormones flying about. Parents need to offer their support during these times. It is important for them to find out more about what they are going through because this is the best way that they can offer their support and show compassion for them. A teen or child should know that they can come to the parent about anything and just open up.




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